What I'm talking about is the same packs that keep getting spammed over and over again that only seem to have minor differences between each other. I'm not trying to say this applies to all PvP packs and I'm sorry if it came off that way.
I used to use PvP packs myself back in 2014/15 and I used a lot. There was certainly variety as to what you wanted, but not once did I see anything truely unique, which is certainly not the same case for Vanilla packs as you seem to claim.
Unless you're referring to the small Vanilla Tweaks-esque packs that get thrown on this site that change very minor things, (which is against the rules; whether its properly enforced or not is up for debate) then I think you're entirely wrong with that claim. Especially bigger packs such as mine, Caelesti, Mickey Joe's RID, etc. are all feature packed with so many unique additions. Every Vanilla pack I've used is different and has its own feel. I never got that with PvP packs.
As for your last line about growing up, I hope you're reffering to the general conflict and not to my post, as I think I made my thoughts clear in a non childish manner.