Okay boys and girls gather up, have a seat and take your coco. Old uncle Wulf have story for you about human mating dance.
First you need to know that humans can be divides into two grenders that differ with various features, begin with body, trough mind, socjal and cultural expectations ending up at seeing world. Simple right? You can say "Oh, but boy and girls are alike and we all human". You have right to some extend, true is we differ to match goals and needs that nature have for us. You can yell, scream, tell it's unfair but thats how world works - Male are simple minded with busted physical features, Female are complex minded with more pain resistance. End of story.
Second put that two grenders with all their flaws and advanteges into society with culture, that is evloving changing and giving restrains to both of them. From acient times males was seen as hunters and protectors of herd - So that means boys need to be strong and brave. Females had to take care of eldery childs and preparing meals - girls should be femine, caring, know how too cook and kind. Sounds familiar? Yup thats sterotypes that are somewhat curse for us all.One more thing you need to be aware of - that all of us hate feeling of being alone. Therefore looking for "second half" is somewhat priorytized (not for all, but for most of them).
Third finally we are in the internet, with gamers of both grenders. Lets take a look at both of them with start from boys. As i said before they are simple minded - what that means? They brain work as big archivie divided into sections and individual lockers for any inormation gathered. Boy log on into MC server, he sees other player with female skin. For males who dominate technological world - female companion is really a treasure. Someone to share his passion with, and won't nag about promise to go shoping when he bought GTA5. So thinking process looks like this:
"Girl! I will be nice for her, and then she will like me for sure and then we can be a couple and we will live happy ever after"
Just for record male population is bigger to around 40 year old, after that age there are more females - that means much competition from male side. Tadah we got to point where poor girls are drowning in diamonds and stuff. Of course in younger males lack of progress raises agression and they start to be a D*ck.
Lets reverse situation. Look at it from female complex point of view. Girls brain is like internet - everywhere are links to other threads, everything is mixed and tresspassing itself. Orgins of woman logic. So depending on various experiences girl had she will take males attention diffrently. Notice to yourself that girl need more time to actually choose partner for her.
"Oh uncle Wulf, but we all herad about love at first sight, you saing that it dont exist?"
Love at first sight is fantasy, of course we have times when girl have that butterflies feeling for boy she just saw, but before actual deision - "Yup he is prince charming" and that moment some time and trials must be passed. Males must met some certian qualifications to be considered as partner material. So simple: "O'MAH GAWD U R GURLL! HAVE SOME DIAMONDS!" is rather annoing.
"But uncle Wulf, there are girls that act they like it!"
So called "Attenton Who***"? Yes for some girls getting attention of other grender is most important thing. They simply need to be worshiped to fight their real life complexes. So they act like divas, celebrities and give others females bad name. Sadly there isn't anything you can do about it. Saving yourself agnist yourself is something everyone of us need to do.
TL;DR version:
I know you young lot don't like walls of text and books are somewhat evil beings, but i recomend you to understand that fenomen spare couple of minutes and read it whole. But i bet all of you just scrolled down and read this version.
Boys and Girls - differ. Boys to get girl wanna be nice and do what they can to get girl. Girls takes longer time to decide wchich boys suit her needs. Clash of both interests bring frustration and nasty situations. End of story.
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