Im looking FOr people like you!
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I know a great one that i have played on. There is regulary 2-3 players on a time (yes it is a small server) but it is whitlisted you can contact the owner at pvn228@gmail.com and just tell him your IGN and your in. The entire 6 player community is very friendly and active we have only 5 plugins and a small spawn.

158.69.120.198:25630

I have a new server you could join if you are into the medieval style. The IP is CBH.mcph.co if you want to check it out. It is a vanilla server with some command block mechanism. We have also created an economy. Feel fee to PM me if you have any questions.

Tried the server, sorry to say it was bad i didnt know what i was doing and it was was too much information/text in my face when i logged in way too confusing also have plugins that have abilities and such does not mean its vanilla, i want a SMP preferably one i have to apply to, so bump

Yeah!
mc.stormheart.net is a great server to join if you're looking for a multiplayer server with a relatively peaceful community - so you wont have to worry about living in an ugly obsidian box with the constant fear of immature griefers finding you. It has a few plugins that makes the server different from others but doesn't venture too far from vanilla minecraft.
heroes-aegon-t531261.html our forum post is here if you would like to read a bit more on it.
Its worth checking out.