I highly recommend looking into PufferPanel or something similar. Using their pre-built templates, you can get up and running in 30 minutes or less.
(I love it so much this sounds like an ad.)

Also, if security is high on your list, look into running a minecraft proxy on a small VPS or somewhere else. I recommend Velocity.

LuckyPerms is good.
I use Axiom a lot for editing the world.
Cross-play with Geyser.

Good luck! :-)

Setting up plugins (PLs) and permissions on your dedicated server? Start with essentials like LuckPerms for permissions. Utilize documentation for specific plugins and consider a plugin manager for easier setup. Feel free to ask for more targeted assistance. Good luck with your server!

What exactly do you need help with, the topics you present are very broad.

We would gladly assist you if you can present us with more specific details/questions.

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