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Aurui's Avatar Aurui6/11/13 10:05 pm
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7/26/2013 4:06 am
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'Sup guys? so uh, I need advice. This is gonna sound retarded *facedesk* But yeah.. There's this one guy in my English class that I really am into, and I catch him staring at me in class. Whenever I talk to him, though, he doesn't look me in the eye. It's not that I have a hard time getting a boyfriend, and I'm pretty attractive, but it's like he's trying to seem like he doesn't notice me or whatevvs. I really do want to date this guy (LULZ i sound desperate as hell) so yuhhh. inb4noteharmonywatrudoin
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Rawwk
07/26/2013 4:06 am
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Friend Zone him then he'll be pissed and try to get out of the friend zone.

win.
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tacitAlpaca
07/26/2013 3:22 am
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Become good friends with him by October, and then ask him out to the movies. #oldschool

But you say you know his sister, so it's not that far fetched to just go and talk to him a bit and then ask to go do something, not necessarily romantic just hanging out or whatever. But scary movies always work >:D
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Kfcnyancat
07/26/2013 3:13 am
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Seriously, most of this advice is terrible. Stare at him? TERRIBLE ADVICE. Even worse, Ask him if he wants to ---------------------------. He's a boy, he ain't gonna turn it down. My response to that? STEREOTYPES FOR THE FAIL.
Seriously, I'm asexual, and I can give better advice!
Here's what you do: Act like yourself, become a close friend of his, and it will happen over time.
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gotskiilz123
07/26/2013 3:08 am
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lmao. Ask him if he wants to -------------------. Hes a boy, He aint gonna turn it down.
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Kfcnyancat
07/26/2013 3:13 am
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Stereotypes. DON'T USE THEM!
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Neptonic
07/26/2013 2:59 am
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This is why I dislike people. I make a funny story up, followed by a true and painful story, followed by good advice, and it's disregarded 'cause someone made a funny (but inappropriate to some people apparently) comment. Nerves have been irked.
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deadrecon98
07/26/2013 2:51 am
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Aurui'Sup guys? so uh, I need advice. This is gonna sound retarded *facedesk* But yeah.. There's this one guy in my English class that I really am into, and I catch him staring at me in class. Whenever I talk to him, though, he doesn't look me in the eye. It's not that I have a hard time getting a boyfriend, and I'm pretty attractive, but it's like he's trying to seem like he doesn't notice me or whatevvs. I really do want to date this guy (LULZ i sound desperate as hell) so yuhhh. inb4noteharmonywatrudoin


Ok so from what you have said it sounds like the guy just won't pay attention to you. Or he won't look you in the eye as you say. I have had this problem before, yes easy to believe I know but just try talking to the guy you know. Find some common ground and you just might get him to talk to you. The reason he is probably doing this is because he lacks the confidence to talk to you. It seems to be a real issue nowadays but just keep trying. If you really like the guy then don't give up easy but be nice about it. Start with something small, like asking to borrow a pencil. That will certainly get him to think about you(one way or the other). And just do that for a bit and then try to move on to something a little bigger and just work your way up from there. I do wish you luck on this and a happy life.

EDIT: And appending the comment above this is how my ex got me out of my "shell" as people call it. It might not work for him but it did for me. I hope this edit helps or at least clarify's,
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Neptonic
07/26/2013 2:44 am
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^
TRUTH


RawwkJust be like
"I got all the legend of zelda games at home"

You'll bring all the boys.

Or... maybe just me.... LOZ FTW!

What happens when he finds out she's missing Oracle of Seasons? HIS WHOLE LIFE WILL BE A LIE!

Uh, I'm never going to love again 'cause I waited too long to man up and ask the girl I loved. She liked me a little. But not enough to be a little more than friends for the last 2 weeks I would see her.


Moral of the story: If you thing their might be a spark ACT ON IT NOW GIRL! LIKE THIS INSTANT! DON'T LOSE HIM... like I lost... her...
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GamerBah
07/26/2013 2:43 am
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No idea where this is going.... Some people here to troll, others here to help... Which side do I take... >:]
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DSasaki
07/26/2013 2:42 am
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I got one real ADVICE for all of you:

*NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER! THEY TELL YOU WHAT THEY WANT NOT WHAT WORKS ON THEM!
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GamerBah
07/26/2013 2:45 am
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Some people of the opposite sex know what to do since they have been through it before. But it all depends on personalities of the desired, I guess...
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DSasaki
07/26/2013 2:48 am
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So you mean she should slap his ass? Because that is what my advice is...
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GamerBah
07/26/2013 2:50 am
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And you say that just to 1) Try to prove your point, which you haven't, and 2) Correct yourself.

You didn't do either. Sorry c:
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Rawwk
07/26/2013 2:34 am
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Just be like
"I got all the legend of zelda games at home"

You'll bring all the boys.

Or... maybe just me.... LOZ FTW!
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DarkStar4657
07/26/2013 2:35 am
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:I
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egamosthe2
07/25/2013 8:01 pm
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He's just shy. Like me
And ye I'm male.
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Scorpinax
07/25/2013 7:56 pm
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Consume his flesh and offer his soul to Cthulhu as a sacrifice, who will then send you a Deep One minion. You could try to date that thing but... It'd probably kill ya.
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DarkStar4657
07/25/2013 2:38 pm
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It's real easy to talk to him just walk up to him like this,i'm sure he will notice you!
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egamosthe2
07/25/2013 8:01 pm
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LOL
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-Rusty-
07/25/2013 1:50 pm
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Not sure if the OP is still looking for advice but...

Just go all out liking him, with flirting and grinning and all that smirk shiz...

The biggest problem guys (and gals) have in a liking pre-relationship thingy
is that they always have doubts weather the other likes them or not...
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oursmileyfaces
07/25/2013 1:33 pm
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That should help
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-Rusty-
07/25/2013 1:48 pm
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that's the worst advice i've ever heard in the history of advice towards people who don't want bad advice
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oursmileyfaces
07/25/2013 1:32 pm
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I threw a wish in the well
Don't ask me, I'll never tell
I looked to you as it fell
And now you're in my way

I trade my soul for a wish
Pennies and dimes for a kiss
I wasn't looking for this
But now you're in my way
Your stare was holding
Ripped jeans, skin was showing
Hot night, wind was blowing
Where you think you're going baby?

Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
It's hard to look right, at you baby
But here's my number, so call me maybe

Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
And all the other boys, try to chase me
But here's my number, so call me maybe

You took your time with the call
I took no time with the fall
You gave me nothing at all, but still you're in my way
I beg and borrow and steal
At first sight and it's real
I didn't know I would feel it, but it's in my way

Your stare was holding
Ripped jeans, skin was showing
Hot night, wind was blowing
Where you think you're going, baby?

Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
It's hard to look right, at you baby
But here's my number, so call me maybe

Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
And all the other boys, try to chase
But here's my number, so call me maybe

Before you came into my life I missed you so bad
I missed you so bad... I missed you so, so bad
Before you came into my life I missed you so bad
And you should know that... I missed you so, so bad

It's hard to look right, at you baby
But here's my number, so call me maybe

Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy
But here's my number, so call me maybe
And all the other boys, try to chase me,
But here's my number, so call me maybe

Before you came into my life I missed you so bad
I missed you so bad... I missed you so, so bad
Before you came into my life I missed you so bad
And you should know that
So call me maybe


More lyrics: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/c/carly_rae_jepsen/
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PixelHor
07/25/2013 1:23 pm
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Aurui'Sup guys? so uh, I need advice. This is gonna sound retarded *facedesk* But yeah.. There's this one guy in my English class that I really am into, and I catch him staring at me in class. Whenever I talk to him, though, he doesn't look me in the eye. It's not that I have a hard time getting a boyfriend, and I'm pretty attractive, but it's like he's trying to seem like he doesn't notice me or whatevvs. I really do want to date this guy (LULZ i sound desperate as hell) so yuhhh. inb4noteharmonywatrudoin

I'm the type of boy who doesn't look girls who I like in the eyes because I'd end up smiling for no reason because I like her so much, he must be a guy like me so I think you should ask him out :3
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Zatharel
06/12/2013 12:10 pm
Level 50 : Grandmaster Sweetheart
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3 things
1 - BE YOURSELF
2 - KEEP CALM
3 - GOOD LUCK
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Rawwk
06/11/2013 11:33 pm
Level 39 : Artisan Engineer
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just say
"reasons you can date me is becuz
-you get the booty
-you get the booty in public
-you get the booty at school
-you get the booty anytime"
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squirt706
06/11/2013 11:44 pm
Level 38 : Artisan Pokemon
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-applause-
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SlyTurtlesZZ
06/11/2013 11:30 pm
Level 34 : Artisan Sailor
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Poop on his face until he tells you if he likes you.

Best
Advice
Dang

dont read this, it's BAD advice.
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ImMrLink
06/11/2013 11:14 pm
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@Candlebor - I'm with you on this one.

@Candlebor @Aurui - I waited and now me and my GirlFriend
have been together for over 2 years i'm glad we waited.

@Aurui - I think you should too Aurui.
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COOPERx223x
06/11/2013 11:14 pm
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Yeah, it really sounds like he likes you.

I was like this guy of yours as well. I had three classes with the girl, so I would sometimes stare at her. More often than not, she would catch me staring. If I ever had to work in a group with her or just talk to her, I couldn't make eye contact. But we eventually became close friends, mostly because she came to me first and talked to me. Now we're the best of friends, and have a very close relationship.

Moral of the story: By the way he's acting, it's very likely he's attracted, but too shy to make a move. My advice would be to try making friends with him. In my experience, the relationship last much longer and is a lot better if you become friends first, rather than just diving into a relationship.
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Aurui
06/11/2013 11:19 pm
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Lucky you guys :3 and thanks for the advice!

I'm gonna head to bed, guys, have to go to a pool party tomorrow. Thanks for all the advice, bye! ^-^
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candle_
06/11/2013 11:06 pm
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Also. Having friends ask him if he likes you is a fairly mediocre idea. It's quite obvious.

It happened to me once and it led to a hilarious prank on her.I am evil, part time.

Also, it may be best just to wait until you're older. I know I sound like I'm being some sort of overprotective adult or "old school", but, it's usually better to wait until you're an adult or almost one to get into dating and such, due to school, hectic times, rapidly fluctuating emotions (It's natural. I'm not stereotyping.) and yaddah yaddah, you might want to wait.


or not. depends on you.
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Monkeyy
06/11/2013 11:12 pm
Level 41 : Master Robot
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"It happened to me once and it led to a hilarious prank on her.I am evil, part time."
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squirt706
06/11/2013 11:03 pm
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Honestly if he has a hard time looking in your eyes when you look at him there is a very good chance he likes you (i catch myself doing that too)

Just take the initiative like the_soup said! ask him to go somewhere and then make sure you establish a follow up date soon after the first one.

I know the fishing metaphor is grossly overused but it actually fits here;

sort of like fishing you have to bait the fish (ask him out or get him to ask you out), once he bites(goes on first date) you can just let him sit there or he will get away so you have to make sure to set the hook(establish second date soon after 1st) and your good to reel him in (i feel so proud of myself for that)
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Aurui
06/11/2013 11:12 pm
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The fishing method sounds pretty cool, thanks alot dood

CandleborAlso. Having friends ask him if he likes you is a fairly mediocre idea. It's quite obvious.

It happened to me once and it led to a hilarious prank on her.I am evil, part time.

Also, it may be best just to wait until you're older. I know I sound like I'm being some sort of overprotective adult or "old school", but, it's usually better to wait until you're an adult or almost one to get into dating and such, due to school, hectic times, rapidly fluctuating emotions (It's natural. I'm not stereotyping.) and yaddah yaddah, you might want to wait.


or not. depends on you.

I have the feeling he wouldn't exactly tell my friends flat-out though. Also, I'm in high school, and I've had a couple boyfriends before. It's a little late for that, lawl.
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4377699683
06/11/2013 10:58 pm
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I the girl i like starts talking to me, I can't seem to make my self look into her eyes. So i think thats a sign that he likes you but idk.
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the gravity block
06/11/2013 10:54 pm
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Chuck a masterball at him...works every time

wait....
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Monkeyy
06/11/2013 10:56 pm
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Masterballs work every time.
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anonpmc696169
06/11/2013 10:52 pm
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Aurui
06/11/2013 10:59 pm
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Note taken c:

jdf2I the girl i like starts talking to me, I can't seem to make my self look into her eyes. So i think thats a sign that he likes you but idk.

I think it just depends on the person, thanks for the input though ^o^
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the gravity block
06/11/2013 10:53 pm
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Great idea! Freindzone him first! lol jk
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4377699683
06/11/2013 11:02 pm
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But what if you get Freind Zoned for life!
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Summertime
06/11/2013 10:51 pm
Level 38 : Artisan Prince
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Don't tell him about your dreams.

Baby Penguin and my crush.

Not telling him that.
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CleverUserName01
06/11/2013 10:47 pm
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Aurui
06/11/2013 10:51 pm
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That made me laugh loolol
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Z645
06/11/2013 10:45 pm
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Like someone said in another thread. Use a Pokeball. Catch him and make him date you. (Wish it worked on women as well :/)
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Flips
06/11/2013 10:44 pm
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Roflbiscuits.
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Aurui
06/11/2013 10:46 pm
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Don't judge me qqq
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the gravity block
06/11/2013 10:42 pm
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You are very true good sir! especially in my case...[/quote]
The soup is a girl.[/quote]
It's a-okay, all he needs is a moustache and a strap-on! ^-^[/quote]
Exactly! well...not really XD
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CleverUserName01
06/11/2013 10:42 pm
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I wish females would like me.....
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